That is life though. Life is full of mistakes and just part of growing up learning to differentiate between the nice guys and the bad guys. All too often the so called nice guy can end up being a 'mr. nasty' in time i.e. Ryan Giggs UK footballer not previously known for bad behaviour. The sad fact is that to a healthy young woman mr. safe and dependable although the most logical choice isn't always a terribly attractive quality. Most of us thankfully work it out eventually.