Well Hawk, it's just that picking on each other in the threads can get out of hand so fast and pull so many people into the goofing and de-goofing process. I know a lot of you Toronto area folks know each other, but see all that network of friendships is invisible to the rest of us. Be careful about doing things here at the Cat to work out stuff that happens between you in 3D. This is sort of a separate relationship here at the Cat, from the rest of how you deal with each other, and it has its own wacky dynamic.

Oh yeah, and also, it's one thing to tease people you know in person, here. But it's a little more edgy and risky to tease people you haven't gotten to know first. And that takes time.

I say all this becasue I have the unmitigated gall of someone who has been around here for a whole, lessee, 7 months if I counted right. And as your "older" if not wiser MudSister. And I say it here instead of in PM because... other newer members may benefit from seeing something unsettling handled in the open.

Thanks for clearing it up. Pals?

~S~