What was idiotic (to me) was getting caught, not getting high.

However it turns out he was ratted out, which makes me feel a little better about how stupid he was being (a lot less than I thought) BUT he feels that since he was ratted out he made no errors in judgment in getting to where he COULD be ratted out, so that is where the argument is now.

I don't call him an idiot to his facce but he knows I think it was imbecilic of him to get caught, or to end up with someone whom he knew was not getting on well with his own parents... it was the grandmother's boyfriend who called the cops.

And my kid was the one carrying the scale, so it looks worse than it was...

*sigh* all over again.