Ritchie,
As was asked up above, what do you want from us? If you posted here anything from "I can't play this one ornament no matter how many hours I practice", to "I can't get along with my neighbors", to "I just found out I have colon cancer", to "I had to put my dog to sleep today"; a lot of people would give a damn, and what's more, chances are, somebody here would have some practical experience to share. It's clear you just want make sure nobody else is happy if you can't be. Sorrow shared is sorrow lessened but sorrow inflicted is sorrow heightened. You can call this "not giving a damn", but I'm gonna let this one die after this post and I would encourage everyone here to do the same.

Rich