"WHY DOES EVERY COMMUNITY I JOIN HAVE SOMEONE/SOMETHING TRYING TO BREAK IT?"

Because the (relative) anonymity of the internet/WWW allows 'some' folk to express their eccentricities all-too-easily. People do from behind a keyboard things that most of them would never do in person.

Give Max time to sort this out. Mudcat is 15 years old. Max is not going to let an occasional 'problem child' ruin it for everyone else.

WAIT... be patient... read some music threads. Go read "The News of the Word" ooops...The Times?

*I* have an outstanding PM I'd like an answer to... but it will wait.