Kim, if it takes being either a Sugar Dog Man or another sugar dog to see the Sugar Dog, then I must be another whiskey cat myself, and if so I am at least 12. And you then would be another sugar dog, in addition to the Whiskey Cat.Hmmm... I do know some Whiskey Cat Men, too... explains a lot!
The there's WonderGoose and DandyGander. Another story.
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