"they are ALL acting like jerks,"

No. The Tea Partiers/Fox News/Right wing talk Radio/Big Money/GOP are lying and lying and lying and trying to destroy the country for their own selfish ends. They lie and lie and lie and when some reacts they say "See those people are as bad as us."

Perhaps you should pay some attention to the substance of the debate? Or perhaps if it does not concern you enough that you bother to learn the substance, perhaps you should ignore it.