I imagine myself in her place.

I think that's what I try to do. leeneia but some things make more sense to me than others.

Funny really say with cats as we have had several over the years. There ways are such that I would know each one was a cat rather than say a dog but at the same time have their own "personality traits".

I'd back myself to know each cat (present or deceased) we have had on this, even if marked identically and the same size.