By definition, you cannot decide not to do what you are supposedly "hard-wired" to do. You cannot decide, for example, to stop your blood from circulating just by concentrating on it. Circulation of the blood is genetically encoded; driving fast and eating candy bars are not.

If, for some reason, you want to use "hard-wired" simply to mean "able unless one would rather not," no one will stop you. But that will only add to the confusion.