"How do you meet chics?"

If all you want is 'chics'(sic), you go to bars or street corners...

If you want to meet nice, compatible women with whom you 'might' form a mutually enjoyable relationship, you go somewhere where there are people who share your interests...and you go there FOR the interest, not just for the possible women. (I went to a folk club...found 2 or 3... married one of 'em 30 years ago)(tractor pulls and flower arranging groups might work, depending...)

There are legions of failed relationships based on careless attention to what the parties really care about.

The more explicit way to express this warning is: "Be careful about going to bed with anyone whom you wouldn't enjoy OUT of bed!"