"Could these actually be female the top ten?"

Sure! All pretty common...and I have known women who admitted to 6-7 of those. (This is 50 years worth of data, you understand....most of it 30+ years ago) You learn the most interesting things by being willing to listen while not acting like you expect demonstrations. ;>)

40 years ago, I knew casually (NOT intimately) a woman who told me she had sort of a combination of 10,6,& 1. She wanted a man to just sweep her off her feet and 'take her'....she then smiled and added, "Of course, not anyone who knows my fantasy in advance." I just smiled back.