Thanks, Big Nige. I was actually glad to have an active role in my brother's memorial (we chose to call it a celebration of his life, rather than a funeral). I could concentrate on putting the song out to the listeners and figure I was helping them. This was all done at a UU church, as Dave was an agnostic, and the minister did a fine job of coordinating everything and speaking in a way that did not put my religious relatives off. Anyway, in regard to Chris's song, my brother's daughter really liked it and that's what mattered.