Back in 2004 Chongo Chump posted for the first time. He wrote:

When it's all over? I normally pour myself a stiff shot of whisky, peel a fresh banana, light up a Cuban cigar, and just sit back and take it easy for awhile. Maybe I play out a little chess gambit to relax my mind.

One thing you can be sure of. When one sticky situation ends another one is waitin' in the wings, so enjoy the peace and quiet while you can, I say. Nobody's gonna pay you for it, so you might as well enjoy it.

CC

That was the first 1,017 posts, but in none of them does he express any regret for his treatment of his sister or mother OR "out himself."

Yet from the very first his tastes have been obvious: "peel a fresh banana" -- "light up a Cuban cigar"-- "sticky situation." And the "chess gambit" should be obvious -- a chess game ends with a "mate."