I don't think it's an either/or question.

In my life, I'm the one who has made all of the sacrifices, and I'm the one who has taken all of the risks. And believe me, I've taken a lot of them.

I've had a very hard life. I don't want to understate this. But I wouldn't change any of it, because it all has meaning for me.

I think when you can find meaning in every part of your life, both good and bad, you are engaging in an act of daisy picking. When you do that, you can look back on your life with no regrets. Regrets are the opposite of daisy picking.

I have no regrets, and I am at peace with my life.

Carol