I agree, kendall, sometimes a little joke can ease the tension. But you weren't joking in any way about the passing of your father were you? And if anyone had done such a thing, you'd have been horrified and very distressed. I just think the flippant remarks and quips about the finding of this poor girl (and it would be the same if it were an old man) a sad indication of the insensitivity of some people. Where is respect?