"of the dead speak kindly or not at all"

That's the deal, Ricky... NObody spoke ill of the dead. NOOOObody. Not once. NObody made jokes about the girl. Not one. That's why the thread has been tainted. False accusations. And I and others still deserve an apology for that.

Was my joke about about Betty tasteless? Yeah, it was. And I thought it was funny or I would not have posted it. I addressed that, more than once. To draw some inane inference that I, or others, were making a joke about the poor girl is unacceptable to me.

After being accused falsely and subsequently assailed, I asked a simple question. There have been no answers because it cannot be answered. It did not happen.