I get to attend a delivery once a month or so when they think they want a pediatrician there. World's best birth control, let me tell you...

In all seriousness, please, if you're not sure you want kids, don't have 'em. And please... don't try to talk friends/relatives into the idea if they've chosen to be childless. I get so much of that from people. Now that I'm thiry-four, I'm starting to have tactless people ask me if my husband and I have an infertility problem!!

I love kids, they're my life. But I love my career that involves caring for them, and that will always come first. Not a fair thing to do to a kid, in my opinion. I'll leave the parenting to folks like you guys!!