Mo's recommednation is not ladies' hands on near shoulders,sge just says that is safere than far shoulders(which it undoubtedly is). She is going ffor all hands round waists, as shown in the clip. Which is a fine clean demonstration of the dance, though the walking around at the end is rather dull. It's meant to be a dance, not a stroll along Ullswater lookibng at the pretty daffodils.