Chalk it up to poor memory, Banjoman. A long time ago, when you were first doing gigs in K.C., you probably were just starting to be able to emote by way of your instrument(s) (...trying to remember, but I think it was guitar and bass in those days wasn't it?). But I would be willing to bet that for the most part you were technically accurate; but musically a little hollow. Time and practice along with playing with others changed that.

Be patient. All will be well.