I quite agree, Dan... everyone DOES have to find their path, and the roadmap that shows the pleasures and the hazards of it. I have no doubt that you meant it as you just clarified...
I only refer to the terms used to explain/mention it to others. Language can be quite important when conveying a personal concept, and can easily give folks the wrong impression.




(why, look at poor Mitt Romney trying to say things, and digging himself a deeper hole)