Old dude.....I spend most of my life being nice to old ladies, I'm a builder and our neck of the woods is full of "widow women"...the men seem to pop-off in their seventies, but the auld wifes keep goin' tae ninety, so they like to see a man about the place.

You're dead right, a few well chosen words and a nice smile can make them feel like young girls again......and they blossom

Isn't life wonderful...sometimes.