Kat, I apologize for not being clearer which of my comments were addressed to you personally, which to Harpgirl personally, and which to you both. I see that you took most if not all of them all as directed at you. I am sorry my frustration made that so easy to do. I was sloppy.

I am harboring some resentment, and I appreciate you pointing it out. I raised an issue with you in a PM that you ducked, declining further communication about it rather than apologizing or acknowledging that you may have done a wrong. It has precluded additional discssion about the feelings you say people have here. It leaves me in the dark when I am trying to understand. It affects the Mudcat you love. I think it's regrettable. So I will work on that resentment. But I'm not paranoid when I assume that you feel as you have told me you feel, and take that into account when I write to you.

~Susan