Kendall, some stuff is no one's business, so don't write/talk about that. As Jacqui said, talk it into a recorder and then let J transcribe it, THEN do the prelim edit.

I'm working on one about my time as a ff, and much has to remain unsaid due to the nature of the stories. However, it's real hard to throw suff out if ya don't have it down in the first place.