Came across this thread "stalking" RangerSteve - not really Steve, just checking out threads you have posted to in order to get a sense of what might strike your fancy in terms of topics and posts while you are doing your best to heal.

The first search led me to Steve's post,which got me to thinking about the "bug day" workshops ex hubby used to lead and in which I never participated because of my own deeply imbedded prejudices that would not allow me to overcome aversion, and the seeds of another long-winded post that no one wants to read.

Found the wit so entertaining and a fine example of Mudcatters at play. I thought it worth resurrecting, and not ruining with my own loss of playful instinct. I don't know if these joyfully playful threads don't happen anymore, or if I have become so grim and busy that I simply don't explore the BS section like I once did to stumble across these gems.

Either way, a fun read, and thanks!