hi eliza- i do try to not be 'jaundiced and bitter'- and really have no problem with anyone who wants to splash about in boats (or swim!)at any level. (blood 'sport' is another matter mind you) i have nothing but admiration and pity for the poor souls who die in wars but do feel justified in feeling 'venom and hatred' to the men who so often send the young to die and kill. as long as we all continue to put our faith in religious rulers or vote for politicians who lack compassion and intelligence, and exploit us by urging us to hate each other, then our world is not going to improve much-despite the best efforts of many millions of people with generosity of spirit.   
peace and love, pete