Who's bitching?? The question was 'Why?'...that's all. Should it be all this ducking and weaving?
'Why' when something gets near resolving..but maybe not consistent with the per-conceived notions...slam! Why?..it doesn't need to. I'm surprise how long this one has stayed open, considering all the deleted posts....which is neither 'right' nor 'left'...just dealing with the human condition. dealing with love, verses co-coercion...and why should 'love' be a threat???
Makes ya' wanna' wonder what the 'real' gig is, huh?

Oh well, at least you have an idea that there is a game being played...and being honest is being feared.
Sounds like a spooky deal in 'upfront'.
That is so disappointing.

GfS