First off, Thornton Wilder wrote The Matchmaker, later the basis for the musical Hello Dolly.

Secondly - and I'm sure this won't really help - I have a vague memory of seeing a community theatre production many years ago in which the tune "Rally 'Round the Flag" was used with the above lyrics.

But it would seem implausible, though, that Wilder would use lyrics from a song that didn't exist!

It must be out there, somewhere...

Jay