My gift to Andie this year, is not tears, but focusing on beauty and creativity. Hope it works.

Tam, it may produce different results than you might envision now, but it sounds (from your description of how you are doing now) like this is a gift worth giving just for the sake of giving it, and it also sounds to me like you will be well able to handle whatever the results turn out to be-- that may also be a gift, to receive.

( S )+(T) that's us, side by side on a park bench, holding hands :~) any time you need to reach over. <3

Much love,

~Susan