Kat999, we can be friendly. And we can offer advice too. Some of us are a little hard to understand. I find the best method is to ignore any post that offends me and laugh at all of the others are worded as though the intention is to offend.

Usually you are on safe ground assuming that the poster is trying to be funny. That way, even if they are not, you can shrug off the words and keep a little peace for yourself.