Such good news! Back up care is so very important , not just for Judy but also for YOU!! I know, looking after my mother who at 88 has dementia and has lived with us since daddy died. I know I couldnt cope without the wonderful carers who come and help with mum, now I have Billy about to have chemo I am very aware that I cannot crack up and the carers make sure I dont. So take great care of yourself and enjoy all the good times with your lovely Judy and let others take some of the strain. Holding you both in my prayers.
Wendy x