From what you say, Little Hawk, the man has no rights and no say in whether the pregnancy that HE is half-partner in, is terminated. Does he also then have no responsibility as regards contraception or assistance if the pregnancy is NOT terminated?
As far as defining the nature of God, in Christianity and Judiasm, man is given free-will and CAN disobey the will of God if he wishes.It just isn't a very good idea. I am not sure of the free-will situation in Islam (anyone?) but the Quran gives some pretty specific things that believers WILL do so presumably there are penalties if one does not do them.
The Bible, The Torah and The Quran are accepted by at least half the world as Truth.Most of the books written about these three books attempt to define the nature of God. I'll certainly look into the three you mentioned.