I know who started this thread and it's no lark, Eliza. This person is very serious about asking this question. This person asked me if they should even bother starting such a thread and I replied that it couldn't hurt. Reading the posts so far, I think it may have already helped and I hope any future posts help. Helps not just this person, but anyone who reads this thread.

BTW... it's a matter of life and death according to the doctors.

Good luck buddy. I am pulling for ya. You can do it.