My ex and are good friends. He's known me since I was 16. We were talking on the phone last night and he said, "You're feeling better, aren't you?" I said sure, each day a bit better. He said, "I can tell because you are arguing with me." Made me LOL...part of our problem was we each had to have the last word and were always arguing about everything! It was funny and touching...his giving me a glimpse of ourselves when so young and ardent. I feel an old friend type tenderness for him. And, then he reminded me of the bell-bottom hip huggers I wore that year!LOL