Claire, I feel for you as you seem to be vulnerable to these people. I don't know your situation, but no-one in a position of 'carer' should be criticising you or making you unhappy. Have you a close friend or family member who could perhaps speak to the carers and point out that this is not part of their job? Your tastes, in music or lifestyle, are not any of their business. I assume you're an adult, so you've every right to enjoy the things you like without having to give in to their preferences. I wish you well and hope things improve for you. Eliza.