""Just enjoy their achievements rather than being so bloody negative and miserable.""

No point whatever asking a leopard to change its spots Allan.

Being "Bloody negative and miserable" is what he does!

I have this sublime mental picture of his ""lady attempting to lift a 25kg bag of raw material into a hopper"" dropping the bag on his toe and kneeing him in the danglers.

Perhaps that would teach him to think about what she wants to do, rather than what a chauvinist thinks she ought to do, and act accordingly.

Don T.