IARF, now that we've got that behind us, getcher butt back here! I don't think anyone took it your "flames" seriously - I sure didn't. In any case, we're all entitled to make mistakes. If I said anything truly offensive, it wasn't my intention and I apologize...apologise.People are accepted into the family here simply because they want to be. You pick on people, people pick on you, but under it all, folks care about each other. We have lots of "stupid attempts at humor" here. No one is excluded because of it - not long-time members and not someone who comes in fresh off the street and simply misjudges the climate. Now that you know what's going on, if you really do like this place, stay for a while!
Now, hold still and be hugged!