Lizzie ~~ He said "engaged" {with the quotes}, not married. In general as you know I feel your points are good even if your expression of them sometimes tends to the verbose ~~ that's your style, to which you are quite entitled. But misreading, misquoting the previous poster, and then aTTACKING HIM FOR WHAT HE DIDN'T SAY IS UNCHARACTERISTICALLY CARELESS OF YOU, AND LAYS YOU OPEN TO THE IRRITATING* Lizzie-baiting which some seem to take so strange a pleasure in.

Best wishes as ever

~Michael~

*Sorry, just a Caps Lock error