I've said something similar before, but you are indeed a unique group of very special people. I often feel that the sum total of all our Life experiences would contain more than enough Wisdom & Knowledge to produce a 'Book of Life'. It would be a book that could answer all those questions that begin: "What can I do?...this has happened", & if not answer, then offer words of comfort & solace that renew one's hope.
       To everyone who has ever contributed to this thread, a heartfelt & sincere thank you; you have shone light into the darkest corners of my Life; brought me comfort when desperation seemed the only option; opened my mind to ways of thinking & being of which I was unaware, or maybe reluctant to adopt. The Thread remains an on-going experience that has become as much a part of my Life as breathing. It has become an ever-changing, ever evolving Constant. That sounds like a contradiction in terms, but I'm sure you understand what I mean.
       As I've also said before, I write in the singular, but Ann is always present, right by my side, so you can always substitute 'We' for 'I'. For all practical purposes, they are synonymous.
                   Much Love to You All,
                   Stay Close,
                                    Nigel & Ann.
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