Marion, My 89 year-old mom's in a nursing home. A good one. But even the best are confining. There's a reason why "institutionalization" is a depressing word. Most families (of those residents who still HAVE families nearby) do what they can. So does a good staff. It never feels like enough.

If you go to a nursing home, play the best you can and RELATE to people you are giving them a gift. As you are doing something for those families who can't do more. I'll presume enough to thank you on behalf of the families of those you played for.

And there's this: If you were truly dreadful (which we all seem to think you weren't), the residents would have something new and energizing to bitch about. And THAT would add zest to life. I've been in an institution (even if it was only a boarding school), and I know.

If YOU enjoyed it (and can), go back! - George ::-.--O