ell - if you are who I think you are, tell Lyra hi! if not, "never mind"
yes - the majority are male oriented. The maids conjuring book might do though....and there are some others which could be adapted.
if a tune is listed in the DT - then you can go to the mirror site at http://www.numachi.com/~rickheit/dtrad/ click here where you can get a gif of the music to download and print out. (Or send $5 to Dick Greenhaus at the digital tradition for the latest DT which will also print out music)