'but I have seen you react similarly once or twice.'
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I repeat my challenge made above, Don. Find me more than that one injudicious and ill-expressed example, which I have already admitted, of any term or vocative I have employed which could have distressed Terence Rattigan's Aunt Edna, within the past 2 years, & I shall climb right down & apologise most profusely and embarrassedly. Until than, stop making baseless accusations which you can't justify; they reflect far more ill on you than on me.
The worse terms of abuse, apart from that one instance, which you will find within that period are, perhaps, 'swine', or 'scoundrel'.

Put up or shut up.

~M~