Look, it's easy....If a Democrat says something racist, it's not really racist...if a Republican voices his opinion about anybody of another color, its racists.
Everybody makes up their own judgements and rationalizations, and if 'your' particular party fucks up, you make excuses and rationalize it away.

Simple.

Meanwhile, you can safely hold onto your political double standards....but of course, that doesn't mean 'you'!

GfS