Okay, you accept responsibility for it. Fine.

Will you also agree to stop doing it in future if I ask you nicely?

Keep in mind that if you do stop attacking Chongo in this deliberately provocative manner (by inventing dire stories about what he's done to his supposed relatives), then Chongo will stop attacking you in retaliation for it. That's how it works. The side that threw the first stone is the side that is obliged to stop throwing stones. And that's you.

How about it? Man up, Amos. Cease these hostile actions against your primate brother Chongo and opt instead for a "live and let live" approach of mutual respect, tolerance, and acceptance. I'm sure Chongo will respond in kind, and he might even send you something nice for Christmas.