We are not all going to end up in the same place. We could select several existing retirement communities - Dick and I are starting to look at some - that already have the accommodations, medical facilities, etc. and have several folky people/couples move into the same ones. We are looking at Continuing Care Retirement Communities (they offer independent living, assisted living, nursing care, and memory care at one site) in NJ, PA, and MD. These places, which offer medical care for life, are not cheap. We are looking around now, but don't intend to move this year, but probably in the next few years (we are 65 and 83). Does anyone want to join us in this search and keep up with which communities look good to us?