Chongo,
My spouse frequently embarasses me in public. He engages in repetitive crotch scratching? He also frequently puts his hand down his pants and plays with his balls. I find it embarassing, especially at formal events.

I guardedly brought it up to him in the past, and he just shruged it off. His reply was "the're my balls and I'll play 'em when I want to - you're jealous "cause you don't got 'em".

What do you recommend I do?

Signed,

"Going nuts" in Seattle