Keith, I've met many people who say "I'm not a racist, but..." and even one or two who say "I've got nothing against gays, but..." You are firmly in both categories I'm afraid. There are years of posts here that demonstrate it. You may never, in your view, have said anything "overtly" racist or homophobic. But you do have a serial and unhealthy habit of dominating discussions involving both topic areas, seemingly your main foci in life. And you do always seem to side pretty clearly with the kind of people who we all know are racist or homophobic. It's no good bleating that you're not and claiming that people don't respond to your posts. That's just sidetracking. Now, having said that, I'm giving over as well, before some bugger tells me to.