Whoa, I didn't mean it to be harsh. I just think there's no answer to the question simpliciter, because it depends so much on the source of one's values. In the church I am a member of, it is considered wrong. But if you're not a member of that church, then its moral strictures don't apply to you. According to other worldviews, it is not.

I'm sorry if I came across as being harsh; that certainly was not my intent.

Alex