THAT IS totally unfair to people who are essentially brainwashed from birth that they have to believe and act in ways that won't send them to hell. it is a very real fear. you can't allow people to be treated like that and then say they should know better. we were never allowed to think. some people manage to work around the ingrained fear and some don't. i obviously don't or i'd be a unitarian agnostic druidess.