Steve, I respect your position so much, and agree with most of it so completely, but I have to disagree with you when you say "Abortions are not individual failures of women or couples. They are one hundred percent always all our fault, all of us. Society's fault."

The rate at which abortions have occured, and do occur, is certainly very much society's fault, for the reasons you've indicated. But provide all the education there is to provide, make contraception readily available and let everyone know it...and there will be decent young couples who start an evening together with no intention of having sex, and end up with a pregnancy. They're not "guilty" if it happens, and society isn't "guilty" because it happens.