The religion (or spiritually)
that will do that for you is the best.

The point is there are no answers, Jack. We're all in this life together (all 7 billion of us, and counting!) yet we must each of us die alone even as life goes on rejoicing. Even as I write : 208,000 births, but only 88,0000 deaths. This much is self-evident, and inescapable - unlike religion. The only self-evident thing about religion is that it was made up by the powerful to pacify & dis-empower their prey by removing from them the potential for self-actualisation. It does not operate to make us more ethical, compassionate, sensible, loving, or humanitarian - on the contrary, it engenders a mawkish sanctimonious reaction to secular common-to-all-7-billion-of-us reality which is, self-evidently, and very wonderfully, the whole of the case.